Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar (* 1981 in Botswana) is a German psychologist, author and founder. She has lived in Germany since the age of four and grew up in northern Germany. She is the mother of three children and lives with her family in Berlin.1Nachgefragt! (n.d.): Von klein auf über Rassismus sprechen. In: Nachgefragt!. Available online at: https://nach-gefragt.org/interviews/von-klein-auf-ueber-rassismus-sprechen (accessed on 3 August 2022).
Career
Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar studied psychology and has many years of experience as a seminar and workshop leader focusing on discrimination and racism.2Nachgefragt! (n.d.): Von klein auf über Rassismus sprechen. In: Nachgefragt!. Available online at: https://nach-gefragt.org/interviews/von-klein-auf-ueber-rassismus-sprechen (accessed on 3 August 2022).
Tebalou
Together with Olaolu Fajembola, Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar founded Tebalou in 2018, an online toy shop offering diverse toys, books, drawing and craft materials, and learning and educational resources for children, such as dolls of different ethnic backgrounds or crayons in different skin tones. According to the founders, Tebalou offers products “that tell of ethnic diversity, the heterogeneity of family models, different religions, beyond binary gender roles or stereotypical depictions of girls and boys.”3Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). The two also set out the vision of their company on their website:
“Our dream is that every child, regardless of skin colour, religious denomination, family constellation, physique, preferences, wishes and dreams, can recognise themselves and find positive images in which they can see themselves reflected. We want to play our part in this by offering the right doll, the fitting book or the suitable play figure.”4Tebalou (n.d.): About Us. In: Tebalou. Available online at: https://tebalou.shop/pages/ueber-uns (accessed on 3 August 2022).
In their own childhood in the 1980s, there were hardly any toys in which the founders could recognise themselves.5Femtastics (2020): Die Gründerinnen von „tebalou“ setzen sich für Diversität im Spielzimmer und Anti-Rassismus ein. In: Femtastics, article of 26 June. Available online at: https://femtastics.com/stories/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022).6Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). As Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar’s co-founder Olaolu Fajembola describes it:
“I did have the feeling of not always belonging, of being something special, that is, in a certain way being particularly visible because of my outward appearance, but on the other hand also completely invisible when it came to books and toys. There was a discrepancy between the perception of my conspicuous outward appearance and the books and games. There were no Black heroines or characters in them.”7Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022).
Even later, when the two became mothers themselves and were looking for toys that represented their own children, they often could not find any in Germany.8Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). After all, representation is always a form of appreciation too. Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar explains:
“For children who otherwise do not see themselves represented, it is a form of appreciation, of equal worth. It shows that they, too, are seen and are part of the world. And it opens up possibilities. The children see a protagonist who looks like them and think: ‘I could be a hero in a story too.’ That is incredibly motivating.”9Dombrowsky, Julia (2021): “Mama, guck mal! Die Frau hat braune Haut!” – Wie zur Hölle bespricht man Rassismus mit einem Kleinkind? In: Watson, article of 18 December. Available online at: https://www.watson.de/leben/interview/357525652-tebogo-niminde-dundadengar-ueber-kleinkinder-und-rassismus (accessed on 3 August 2022).
For the idea behind their diverse online shop, the entrepreneurs received the Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen-Preis der Bundesregierung (the German federal government’s award for cultural and creative pilots) in 2019 and were honoured with the Digital Female Leader Award in the Diversity category.10Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland (2019): Tebalou. In: Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland. Available online at: https://kultur-kreativpiloten.de/titeltraeger/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022).11Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). The two women spoke about the story of founding their company in the magazine SHE works! – Das Wirtschafts- und Karrieremagazin für Frauen (the business and career magazine for women).12SHE works! (2020): Tebalou: Für mehr Vielfalt im Spielzimmer, article of 17 November. Available online at: https://www.she-works.de/gruenderinnen-im-portraet/tebalou-fuer-mehr-vielfalt-im-spielzimmer/2020/11/17/ (accessed on 3 August 2023). In the essay “Unlearn Rassismus” (Unlearn Racism) in the essay collection Unlearn Patriarchy, the two founders discuss how founding a company in Germany involves many obstacles for women, and for Black women in particular.13Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2022): Unlearn Rassismus. In: Jaspers, Lisa/Ryland, Naomi/Horch, Silvie (eds.): Unlearn Patriarchy. Berlin: Ullstein, ISBN 978-3-550-202193, pp. 159–177.
In February 2026, the two founders announced that they would be closing their online shop and were seeking changes.14Tebalou (2026): untitled In: Instagram, post of 27 February. Available online at: https://www.instagram.com/p/DVP-_vNDGi9/ (accessed on 27 February 2026).
Books
Together with Olaolu Fajembola, Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar writes diversity-sensitive, racism-critical parenting guides and children’s books. In Gib mir mal die Hautfarbe: Mit Kindern über Rassismus sprechen (roughly: “Pass me the skin colour: Talking to children about racism”), the two authors offer tips for an anti-racist upbringing.15Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2021): Gib mir mal die Hautfarbe: Mit Kindern über Rassismus sprechen. Weinheim: Beltz, ISBN 978-3-407-86689-9. In the children’s book So schlafe ich! Und wie schläfst du? (“This is how I sleep! And how do you sleep?”), the two, together with Paran Kim, tell bedtime stories that depict diverse family models from different cultures.16Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu/Kim, Paran (2023): So schlafe ich! Und wie schläfst du? Hamburg: Carlsen, ISBN 978-3-551-17278-5.
Awards
- 2019: Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen-Preis der Bundesregierung for Tebalou.17Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland (2019): Tebalou. In: Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland. Available online at: https://kultur-kreativpiloten.de/titeltraeger/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022).
- 2021: Digital Female Leader Award in the Diversity category.18Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022).
Publications
- Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2021): Gib mir mal die Hautfarbe: Mit Kindern über Rassismus sprechen. Weinheim: Beltz, ISBN 978-3-407-86689-9.
- Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2022): Unlearn Rassismus. In: Jaspers, Lisa/Ryland, Naomi/Horch, Silvie (eds.): Unlearn Patriarchy. Berlin: Ullstein, ISBN 978-3-550-202193, pp. 159–177.
- Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu/Kim, Paran (2023): So schlafe ich! Und wie schläfst du? Hamburg: Carlsen, ISBN 978-3-551-17278-5.
- Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2024): Mit Kindern über Diskriminierungen sprechen. Weinheim: Beltz, ISBN 978-3-407-86791-9.
External links
- Tebalou
- Literature by Tebogo Nimindé-Dundadengar in the German National Library (Deutsche Nationalbibliothek)
Machine translation: This article was translated automatically from the German original.
- 1Nachgefragt! (n.d.): Von klein auf über Rassismus sprechen. In: Nachgefragt!. Available online at: https://nach-gefragt.org/interviews/von-klein-auf-ueber-rassismus-sprechen (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 2Nachgefragt! (n.d.): Von klein auf über Rassismus sprechen. In: Nachgefragt!. Available online at: https://nach-gefragt.org/interviews/von-klein-auf-ueber-rassismus-sprechen (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 3Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 4Tebalou (n.d.): About Us. In: Tebalou. Available online at: https://tebalou.shop/pages/ueber-uns (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 5Femtastics (2020): Die Gründerinnen von „tebalou“ setzen sich für Diversität im Spielzimmer und Anti-Rassismus ein. In: Femtastics, article of 26 June. Available online at: https://femtastics.com/stories/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 6Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 7Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 8Toys Kids (2023): Brennpunkt: Mehr Raum für mehr Vielfalt. In: Toys Kids, article of 11 March. Available online at: https://www.toys-kids.de/insight/brennpunkt-mehr-raum-fuer-mehr-vielfalt/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 9Dombrowsky, Julia (2021): “Mama, guck mal! Die Frau hat braune Haut!” – Wie zur Hölle bespricht man Rassismus mit einem Kleinkind? In: Watson, article of 18 December. Available online at: https://www.watson.de/leben/interview/357525652-tebogo-niminde-dundadengar-ueber-kleinkinder-und-rassismus (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 10Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland (2019): Tebalou. In: Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland. Available online at: https://kultur-kreativpiloten.de/titeltraeger/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 11Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 12SHE works! (2020): Tebalou: Für mehr Vielfalt im Spielzimmer, article of 17 November. Available online at: https://www.she-works.de/gruenderinnen-im-portraet/tebalou-fuer-mehr-vielfalt-im-spielzimmer/2020/11/17/ (accessed on 3 August 2023). ↩︎
- 13Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2022): Unlearn Rassismus. In: Jaspers, Lisa/Ryland, Naomi/Horch, Silvie (eds.): Unlearn Patriarchy. Berlin: Ullstein, ISBN 978-3-550-202193, pp. 159–177. ↩︎
- 14Tebalou (2026): untitled In: Instagram, post of 27 February. Available online at: https://www.instagram.com/p/DVP-_vNDGi9/ (accessed on 27 February 2026). ↩︎
- 15Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu (2021): Gib mir mal die Hautfarbe: Mit Kindern über Rassismus sprechen. Weinheim: Beltz, ISBN 978-3-407-86689-9. ↩︎
- 16Nimindé-Dundadengar, Tebogo/Fajembola, Olaolu/Kim, Paran (2023): So schlafe ich! Und wie schläfst du? Hamburg: Carlsen, ISBN 978-3-551-17278-5. ↩︎
- 17Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland (2019): Tebalou. In: Kultur- und Kreativpilot*innen Deutschland. Available online at: https://kultur-kreativpiloten.de/titeltraeger/tebalou/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎
- 18Digital Female Leader Award (2021): Olaolu Fajembola & Tebogo Niminde-Dundadengar. In: Digital Female Leader Award. Available online at: https://digital-female-leader.de/finalists21/olaolu-fajembola/ (accessed on 3 August 2022). ↩︎